I hope that these
words I’ve penned regarding Father’s Day will first encourage you that there
are still good men around and they should be celebrated in a world that too often demoralizes masculinity and reviles
Biblical principles of manhood, and secondly, that you will find a blueprint
for prayer regarding the men in our lives who are leading families and
businesses and directing world affairs.
It's clearly not easy to be a man of God in today’s
society, but it is worth everything, for the Kingdom and for future
generations.
Psalm 112 is that very blueprint we can use to pray as
well as to encourage the men we know. I have been praying Psalm 112 for my boys
for several years now, because someday they will lead another person in life or
work and I want God to empower them to do it well. Here are a couple of verses
I pray specifically for the men in my life:
Blessed is He who fears the Lord and finds delight in His commandments. Psalm 112:1
Perhaps when you hear the word FEAR you think, “Oh yes, I know about fear.”
So do I!
My mom used to use these words freely: “Just wait until
your dad gets home!”
That was my cue to run to my room and add many
layers of underwear to my current outfit to ensure a very soft landing upon my
imminent punishment.
In contrast, the fear that the scriptures talk about here
is less “run and put extra underoos on” and a little more “reverent awe and
wonder.”
Blessed is the man who understands his smallness in light
of the grandness and majesty of God, and uses that as a source of humility to
fuel service to God. A man like this is not puffed up about His
own power, but is mesmerized by the power of God at work in his life.
His fear of God, as my study Bible points out, does not lead him to “…craven
terror but to reverent love and worship.” (ESV Study Bible)
God, may men
everywhere seek You in Your Holy dwelling. Give them eyes to see Your holiness
in wonder. May they revere you and honor You as Lord.
Blessed is He who fears the Lord and finds delight in His commandments. Psalm 112:1
Psalm 112:1 mentions a man who not only obeys God with
joy, not just a begrudging, “OH, FINE WITH IT THEN,” type of attitude. You
know, like this: “You’re killing all my fun, but You’re the boss.”
A true man of God notices his lowly position and the
generosity of God to save him, he delights
in following God’s commands. Just as Jesus reminded us in the Gospels, “Those
who have been forgiven much love much.” A Godly man practices obedience even when –
especially when – it isn’t easy or convenient, because he knows God is worthy
of it and he finds joy in responding to the love of God through obeying
his commands.
Lord, we pray for the men we know and love. We pray for men
who lead churches and cities and countries and wives and children. May they
DELIGHT in doing Your will. Bless them with knowledge of their identity in
Christ and create in them a clean heart. We pray for them to be strengthened
against temptation and to take joy in obedience to You.
Blessed is the man who has no fear of bad news, his heart
is firm, trusting in the Lord. Psalm 112:7
These days, do you find people have the tendency to run
around panicked and fearful? I find this the opposite of helpful to the people
of God, who are struggling to trust Him as it is! Take the news for example, with
so many talking heads at once telling everyone why they should be afraid and
miserable. We need steady and dependent. Author Lisa Whittle, writes in her
book Put Your Warrior Boots On that we need the “ministry of sameness” –
meaning what God’s people need to embrace is faithful consistency.
When we peer
into this psalm, we see that a man of God has no fear of bad news. WHY? Because
he fears God and NOTHING ELSE. We need consistent Christians who can stay calm
on days like last Wednesday, when shootings are happening and leaders are dying
and there are open physical and spiritual wounds wherever our eyes turn. We need men of God to lead us in prayer and
worship, not in hype and hysteria.
Blessed is the man who brings our
focus back to the Lord of Heaven and Earth, who never sleeps or slumbers and
who sent His Spirit to help us live on
earth as it is in Heaven.
We need to pray for our brothers in Christ to
have steady hearts that are unafraid for what is to come, because they trust in
the Lord alone. Not in politicians, not in world leaders, not in fallen
humanity, not even in themselves, but
in the faithful hand of God at work in the world today.
he Body of Christ needs the consistent voice of men in the Church who
remind us in a way only spiritual fathers can do, “God will keep his promises
to us.” Sometimes, like our own Godly fathers, this reminder sounds gentle
and sometimes it sounds like thunder from heaven.
We need it both ways, just like I often needed the gentle
voice of the dad who read chapter books to me every night growing up, and
perhaps more often, I needed the guy who was coming home later to disciple me,
which came through loving (not abusive – that is not Godly or appropriate in
any setting) discipline.
A spiritual father
does nothing less than help shape the children of God to be fit to carry His
name, and blessed is the man courageous enough not to waver or be distracted from that call by
circumstances in this dark world.
That dark world has
sold us a bill of goods, teaching us for over 50
years that we don’t
need men anymore.
They are wrong.
We need men of God more than
ever before, 10-100, to stand up and be counted for the Gospel. We need them to
fear God and to delight in doing what He says. We need them to stay calm and
point us back to our only hope in Christ Jesus.
Blessed are you, men of God, when you do this for a Church
who doesn’t always honor or respect you and for the good of a world who has
made you the punchline of many a sitcom joke.
My husband washing our daughter's hair. He's not the babysitter. |
You are not the babysitter. You are
fully capable of providing a spiritual heritage to a generation of people who
want to know their Father God but need faithful men to live out His principles
in front of them with integrity. We are praying for you. Thank you for serving
the Church in this way.